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Post by redwurd on Sept 10, 2009 21:28:13 GMT -5
OK, enough!!! Leave Wottes some BREATHING ROOM PEOPLE!!! It is great to see the LOTR Community try to reach to the 'real world' in concern for one of our own, but bombarding Wottes with our opinions & concerns is still BOMBARDING HER!!!
Wottes seems to have her priorities set and a healthy realistic view of her adoption & trying to find her birth mother. It is HER LIFE AFTER ALL!
And I hope that if Wottes needs our opinions or advice she would feel able to come and post here without her getting dumped upon. Hell I would like to be able to do that as I am sure anyone would!
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Post by AznLisa23 on Sept 10, 2009 22:00:07 GMT -5
Ok I am truly done posting on this topic (after this) I have a stomach ache after each time. As far my mother who adopted me is concerned I agree with Wotts. My mom loves me and understands anything I want to do. She helped me gather the information I needed to start the whole process. She wasn't hurt or threatened by the prospect of my finding answers because she knows she is my real mother. Anyone who loves me or wotts will support our decisions in this. Ok that's it don't evoke anymore responses from me plessssse....
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Post by wottesworthsgurl on Sept 11, 2009 7:44:09 GMT -5
yeah shush lol!!! hehe thanks for shareing lisa though
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Post by hanzrimer on Sept 11, 2009 11:56:37 GMT -5
I don't know why everyone is so agaisnt her meeting her mom, I know I'd want, most of you just need to say your piece and move on. Humans aren't always creatures of logic, we are creatures of passion.
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Post by BulgarianMenace on Sept 11, 2009 13:23:03 GMT -5
why don't you take your own advice then? What's that, like, the 3rd (4th?) time you've said the exact same thing?
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Post by hanzrimer on Sept 11, 2009 13:31:25 GMT -5
The difference is I'm supporting her. Last I checked I wasn't writing a bunch of replies telling her not to do it.
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Post by BulgarianMenace on Sept 11, 2009 13:35:39 GMT -5
doesn't make a difference as far as "saying your piece and moving on." Especially if you aren't saying adding anything new.
And when someone makes a topic in a public forum they will get people's opinions on that topic. If they didn't want to deal with that then they shouldn't have made the topic in the first place.
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Post by redwurd on Sept 11, 2009 13:38:40 GMT -5
OK YOU TWO!!!! THE STICK HAS INDEED BEEN BEATEN BY THE DEAD HORSE ALREADY!!!! enough said! =[
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Post by hanzrimer on Sept 11, 2009 13:40:40 GMT -5
that's fine, I'm just going to stop replying here any way because you have to bring your petty grudge against me for whatever reason in every topic, even in ones as serious as this one. You're not even trying to convince her of anything at this point, you're just arguing with me which you seem to love to do.
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Post by BulgarianMenace on Sept 11, 2009 13:45:05 GMT -5
I'm offering my opinion, which I'm perfectly entitled to do, and which she can take for it's worth. You're just being your usual hypocritical asinine self. Unlike you, I am going to stop replying here because I DID say my piece and I have nothing more to add. But you just keep it up.
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Post by hanzrimer on Sept 11, 2009 13:57:50 GMT -5
I'm offering my opinion, which I'm perfectly entitled to do, and which she can take for it's worth. You're just being your usual hypocritical asinine self. Unlike you, I am going to stop replying here because I DID say my piece and I have nothing more to add. But you just keep it up. Always so charming and diplomatic aren't we?
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Post by wottesworthsgurl on Sept 11, 2009 14:26:23 GMT -5
Guys I didn't mean for anyone to fight D: sorry people
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Post by hanzrimer on Sept 11, 2009 18:15:46 GMT -5
It's not your fault. Just curious, do you still plan on looking for your ("birth") mother?
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Post by wottesworthsgurl on Sept 11, 2009 18:23:34 GMT -5
Hmm maybe...yeah it's my fault but its okay!!! And my neighboor is now addicted to lotr lol!!! He's at my house playing it grrr I wanna get on
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Post by cat-tooth on Sept 20, 2009 20:03:14 GMT -5
OK it seems like you guys might've been trying to put this one to bed but I just got here so I can still say stuff! Very often the people you are closest to are not the ones you are most closely related to. This is true whether you are adopted or not. I think your family is who you say your family is that doesn't deny it after you say it... lol. I think an adopted kid tracking down their biological parents for medical reasons is legitimate, but I'd like to think that the adoption agencies are on top of the situation enough that that wouldn't be necessary as that doesn't really strike me as the best reason for a reunion. I'm with Lisa that I could never imagine giving up a baby for any reason once I had one (short of sending it to the future to save it from a techno-organic virus...), but I still think that if I was adopted I would want to seek out my original parents for no other reason than just curiosity (there's that word again... D: ), just to see what their deal was. I just think that if I did, I would approach it with no expectations of what I would find. I also think that if somehow I had given a kid up for adoption, after the fact I would regard it as a done deal and feel somewhat obliged to stay out of the way unless I had some kind of arrangement with the adopted parents that I could stay involved. Absent that, I think that I would think that I should just stay out of it and if at some point the kid chose to seek me out then it would be a different story. Again though, from the kid's perspective, I would definitely not approach the situation with that, or any, expectation..
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